Why don’t they settle their dispute in calm and civilized way?? Instead of raising their voices and confront in front of their children, wouldn’t it be better to speak their hearts out in calmer way?
One demand settlement of money and another blamed the other for not helping out during difficult times. Both are hubby’s cousins. Both are brother and sister by blood. The brother blaming sister for not settling money owed to him and the sister and family are blaming him for not pity on them as they having difficult times.
I cant blame the sister in this case for the brother’s insensitivity. Brother is filthy rich, and yet still ask money back from his poor sister. Damn selfish and inconsiderate if you ask me.
Who is to be blamed? Definitely not their poor children. Now the brother’s daughter has to put up a temporary shelter at our house, she has been for the past 1 week. Before this, she used to stay at the aunty’s house as she is furthering her study here. But with aunty and father arguing over silly matters, she has no choice but to move out. Temporary staying over, while waiting to move to a rented house with some friends end of the month.
Never really understand them. I may not know the head and tail of the story, but definitely a small silly matter should not affect a good relationship of a brother and sister. Anyone agree with me? I just hope that they will settle their disagreement soon. As for us been the neutral party, we just listen and do not side any party! It is always hard to be peacemaker. Better to be a listener instead.