What is the logic here? Why I am not allowed to enjoy myself and catch up with old friends once in a blue moon?
I am complaining about my hubby. He does not allow me to go clubbing with my lady friends on Christmas Eve. His reason given is “family’s time”. Alright, I usually used this excuse when he gone out with friends at night, so now he is using the same excuse back to me. The only logic I can think about is that he does not want me to go and leave Baby Jay to his care. Baby Jay is also one kind. Demanding baby and loves people to carry him around. He is pretty strong now. Kick and cannot be still when he is carried or lied down.
It is not like I frequently go out at nights. Heard Jen is coming back to Kuching for Christmas so I would love to catch up with her. The last time we met was when she held her wedding reception a year ago.
Well, I wonder how should I get my passport stamped that night? Or maybe I get my friends for a lunch get-together instead. I actually much prefer a quiet place for meeting, rather than a noisy and loud pub. Hardly a great place to chat, don’t you think?
Maybe stay@home on the eve & go out with friends on Xmas day?... Oh same here my XJ also can't "sit still" kind of baby + getting heavier, so difficult to carry him & he wants ppl to carry a lot too!
ReplyDeleteDora
Just invite all your friends over to your house and have a party there. That should solve everything ... hehehe ...
ReplyDeleteFor me, it's easier to get out for a lunch date rather than a dinner do.. So maybe you might want to reconsider and have a lunch party instead, at least the possibility of getting your passport stamped is higher! :D
ReplyDeletemaybe he's concerned about yr safety since u r going out at night..
ReplyDeletemaybe because 24th eve is a christmas eve so for a traditional man, it's for family. i think lunch on the 24th is ok for him for you to go out...try..
ReplyDeleteInvite Jen for lunch la... the last time she is back, we meet her up for lunch ..
ReplyDeleteBy the way, when she is back ? i forgot again
Didi, I heard from a friend she is back on 21st. Stay for about a week. I havent really get hold of her.
ReplyDeleteYeah... lunch will be a better idea.
ReplyDeleteNormally men don't like to handle babies on their own... so you know I don;t have much social life as well. Where ever I go I have to lug along my son and now both of them if I ever go out.
Anyway, wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Happy 2010! :)