Someone I knew told me a month ago that she is making a biggest decision in her life. Divorcing her husband!!
It is not a shocking revelation from her, but please, I am not being cruel here, it is just that in first place, they married too young and secondly both are not trying hard in their marriage.
I know that such decision needs courage so as a friend, I stand by her, telling her that she has to think about her young girl and what ever decision she makes, it will affect her kid in the future. She was so convince that time that there were no U-turn for both of them.
But as the weeks go by, I heard from another friend that they are working things out. Great! And it happens I bumped into them today, shopping for crockery and kitchen utensils. And funny thing is that she has never cook in her life before and now she is cooking. I am impressed with her. Like the saying, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.". I am happy for both of them and hope they do work things out this time. They'll be fine.
If both are willing to work it out,i am positive it can be worked out,,, you see,when any problems surface in a marriage,we must all go back to the "beginning" ,the beginning of when we first fell in love, the beginning when we thought we could not live without each other,the beginning when we must kiss to say good night and the beginning when we first loved each other day...
ReplyDeleteAlong the way of marriage,we tend to lose "love" because of money,because stress,because of work,because of children,that's why we must find time to find that "love" again., rekindle the fire again, stoke the love again,
wish you friend all the best and I am sure it will be all right
:) I am glad to hear the good news in the end. At least the child won't be having single parent. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy but hopefully they will work it out for the sake for their kid.
ReplyDeleteOk, the wifey starts cooking...it's a good beginning..However, they will need to work on other things as well, I mean..not just looking after the 'stomach'.
ReplyDeleteHappy ending, in the end, I hope :)
Give and take, take and give. As long as the other is willing.
ReplyDeleteHope your friend managed to sail through this difficult time and rekindle her love with her husband.
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